Many Facebook users can relate to the fact that this social networking site simply isn’t what it used to be. If you think about it, the reason you may have had for joining this site is probably to keep in contact with friends. You wanted to have that ‘inside peek’ on what’s happening in their lives since you couldn’t be with them physically. Everything just seemed to be so simple with this site. This idealism is changing and fast. Users are leaving Facebook for good. Why?
“People are becoming aware of the limitations of Facebook’s semi-public, ‘all of your friends under one roof’ system,” said Dr Bernie Hogan of the Oxford Internet Institute. “As soon as mum joins Facebook, people have to make sure Facebook is mum-safe. If a teacher becomes friends with a student on Facebook, they have to make sure the content is appropriate for their role as a teacher. What that does is water down one’s capacity to fully express oneself in this space.”
Since the site has become extremely popular, it’s becoming very hard to limit the people who you want to interact with. You have to really think twice before posting anything on these sites: What will Mum say if she saw this? Is this really something I want people to know? Will this affect my reputation? All these questions are making Facebook somewhat of a hassle to use. You don’t have the freedom to post ‘whatever you want’ anymore.
Then is the ‘keeping up with your appearance online’ problem. With everyone able to see your photos, comparing is something that comes naturally. So you end up spending too much time ‘beating’ other people’s poses. This social competition online can be depressing if you are on the ‘loosing side’. It’s like if you aren’t popular on FB , you’re nobody.
Other than this is the issue of privacy. With the increase of cyber attacks, there is no assurance that your personal information won’t get into the wrong hands. Once it’s out there, you really can’t control where it ends up. With the constant changes in the features on Facebook such as the recent issue of face tagging, people don’t feel safe on Facebook any longer.
The result? People figure if you really are friend’s you’d keep in touch the old fashioned way.
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